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4 posts since

7 Apr 2021

Hi, so I’m 26 and I have the worst Heath anxiety ever! I’m so terrible. But I really can’t it!..I’ve been feeling my breasts and I’ve noticed that the chest part of my left breast, the chest wall I believe it’s called, is quite lumpy..and the harder I push down I can feel them.. and I’m so scared that it’s breast cancer! I can’t s my mind from worrying..I do have a few veins on my breasts aswell so not sure if it’s them. I’m going to ring my doctor tomorrow but I’m worried that he is going to put it down to my anxiety as he is aware that I suffer from it really bad..I felt my other breast and I think it feels the same I’m not sure..sometimes my mind goes overdrive and tells me that it isn’t!..I just need some reassurance Happy will be very grateful so I can get some ep tonight x

241 posts since

26 Nov 2020

Hello, I am guessing you are a mum of 3?? I am too. 30 years old 2 boys 8 and 4 and a girl she is 1. I’m having a breast cancer scare at the moment and have had one in the past too( which thankfully was ok). 
I hear you though, I suffer immensely with health anxiety, strangely since I had my fist scare with the lump in my breast just over 4 years ago. Since then I frighten myself over every ache, pain, spot, lump, you name it I’m freaking out. Since the beginning of the year I have been having major anxiety attacks about having tongue cancer and I spent the first 3 months of this year in and out of doctors and dentists, I still have some issues but you know what I overcame them. Lots and lots of talking with friends and family. S, think about it and try to think rationally rather than freak out because from my experience that’s the worst feeling than anything else. It came to a point where my eldest was picking up on everything I was doing and he started to mimick the things I was doing, complaining and worrying over pains etc. It’s then you realise that you have to try and hide your worries and by doing that keep yourself busy with your children and other hobbies. Don’t get me wrong I still find myself on the internet, but I haven’t googled in over a month, I just read other people’s stories and it gives me hope that if it is something sinister there is treatment. Strangely I’m not panicking like I nally do about this lump I have got, I made a joke that this will be the one thing that’s sinister because I’m not fretting over But the worry is still there, nothing will s you from worrying but try and keep the anxiety at bay! Sorry for the long post, I really hope it s you even if just a little bit! 
 

have you spoken to your GP? They are the only ones that can with the breast issue and also you can talk to them about your anxiety, they may advise you to for CBT or even medication if it’s taking over your life. I was given sertraline which s with anxiety but I never took them! I was determined to try and fight it alone. 
 

sending you hugs xx

2 posts since

7 Apr 2021

Hi, I went to my gp today I have a hard lump under my breast I’m being referred under the two week rule bcally going out of my mind x

241 posts since

26 Nov 2020

Sorry to hear you are going through this too, I really hope that all of us get a good outcome from all of this! It’s such a worrying time. Nobody is saying you can’t worry but try and put it to the back of your mind until your appointment, that’s the only thing I can say. When did you find it? Xx

2 posts since

7 Apr 2021

I found it a few days ago so I went straight to my gp, I hope the appointment is soon! Hope you’re ok x

4 posts since

7 Apr 2021

Hi:)

yes a mum of 3! Very close ages to yours actually! I have two girls! 7 and 5 and a boy who is also 1!:) and strangely  have also been through a cancer scare a few years ago! Which also turned out to be ok! It was a blocked milk duct! This lump I have now isn’t an obvious lump! I really have to push down quite hard to feel it!…it wasn’t what started mr health anxiety though ! Unfortunately I’ve suffered with anxiety ever since I was a little! So it isn’t a new thing for me to be panicking about something like this! I drive my family mad lol…I complete understand about your eldest picking up on things..my eldest does to! She will come in to me complaining about her leg hurting or her arm…totally blame my self for how worried she can get…I try so hard to brush it off!…but it’s always the “what if” ya know!…

i have spoken to my doctor..he is very aware which is why I’m worried that if i mention the lump he will just brush it off as my anxiety. He has also prescribed me setralin but just like you I don’t take them lol…more so because I’m scared of the side affects …and I do currently have cbt! It s a little…I just wish I had a different mind? So draining being worried all the time! Wish I could just shake It off!..

thankyou so much for your advice! And really do hope that your lump turns out to be nothing again! ❤️ Xxx

241 posts since

26 Nov 2020

Wow! We do seem very similar in everything! Down to the last T! 
my cancer scare turned out to be a fibroadenoma. This one is different too, pea size right under the areola next to my nipple, really hoping it has something to do with the piercing I had done 7 months ago, buts it’s only popped up since 4 weeks ago so I’m not holding out much hope. It’s painless, round and soft to firmish I think? 
I am the same from since I can remember I have always been a worrier, from little things when I was a teenager, silly really, thinking I had appendicitis(actually it was my periods starting) to thinking I’m having a (panic attack) but these last 4 years have all been revolved around cancer! Maybe it’s because there’s so much of it in the world, always hearing of it and it’s a worry that I may have it! I also drive my family and friends mad, I have had to take a step back from constant messaging and calling them but they have been very supportive. Oh I know how you feel, I’m always brushing off my eldest with “Yh u will be fine you have just pulled a muscle” or “your leg isn’t going to fall off” lol. But down I worry about them just as much as myself, my middle child I recently had a lump checked out on his neck, just a lymph node, my eldest I thought had a water infection or kidney infection, turned out he was just having too much fun on the PlayStation and holding his wee in! I’m always fretting over stuff, even booked my partner a doctors appointment recently for his moles which again turned out fine! But the anxiety takes over and I start to think my luck will run out and this is it, I will have the horrible diagnosis. It’s a vicious cycle! 
 

I was just like you, worried about mentioning anything to my doctor because I always go in guns blazing, head spinning and freaking out, but this time I made a pact with myself that I would not do that. So when I had the phone call I just simply said, ” I have found a lump” as calm as I possibly could and instead of reeling off all my symptoms I let the doctor ask me the s and within a minute he referred me straight to the breast clinic, no bones about I did have a sudden wave of fear come over me and again when I got the appointment through the fear and anxiety hit again, but this last week I have been trying so hard to not make it a priority but to just put it to the back of my mind. Please mention this lump to your doctor, it could be absolutely nothing again, but it’s best to get checked out. 
 

how bizarre that you were prescribed sertraline and did not take them…. and for exactly the same reason as me… I think I read somewhere small risk of pancreatic cancer and that was it I was like nope not taking them. My family were going crazy that I begged for but refuse to take the medication. I tried cbt for second time beginning of the year but with the kids off from school I couldn’t concentrate. So I sped. Keep going with it, it might make a difference. It is very draining, I know the feeling too well. 
 

That’s ok! Thankyou hun, me too! Xx

241 posts since

26 Nov 2020

It’s good you went straight to the GP, I waited 2 weeks before I did, probably not the best idea I had lol. 
 

you should get your appointment through quickly, I got mine through just under a week after referral. I hope it all turns out ok for u xxx

4 posts since

7 Apr 2021

Yes!! We do!! When I was reading your reply I was thinking to my self, Wow! She sounds just like me .. the strangest thing is, Is about 2 weeks ago I went to the doctor about a “pea” sized lump to the left of my nipple!! But it had like a small dot on it!…he said it looked like a blocked pore, Which it was! I went home and squeezed it and all this white stuff came out Was so relieved though. When you get the time, look at yours again and see if it has that tiny dot on it Happy yours may be the same Happy and mine didn’t really start off about health! It was just the fear of dying all together, Like the world ending and stuff! Used to scare the hell out of me!..as I got older it seemed to of revolved more around health. Maybe because I understood cancer more I’m not sure. 
When I try to reassure my daughter I always think to my self after, maybe I should take some of my own advice lol. And this is getting more and more bizarre as we go along my middle child actually does suffer from water infections! And the doctor thinks it is down to her holding her wee in to long! And I recently got my whole body checked because I have quite a few moles!!! And I wanted to be sure that they weren’t anything dangerous swear we are the same
so glad your husbands also turned out to be ok! As mine were too 🙂 

and yeah I read the side affects and I saw that it can cause suicidal thoughts!…was a defo no from me! I thought to my self I’m scared stiff of dying any way the last thing I would want is thoughts like that! And I say that in the most humorous way possible lol.

Although I wouldn’t wish this condition on anyone, it  feels really nice knowing there is people like me out there and I’m not the only one.

please post on here once you have the all the clear! Would love to know how you got on! And I’ll do the same Happy xx

241 posts since

26 Nov 2020

That’s how I was thinking when I first read your reply lol. Really?? I will certainly be taking a closer look tomorrow!! Can only hope something gives lol. Thank goodness that’s all it was for you on that occon! Bizarre what I bodies out us through. 

oh bless you, it’s not a nice thought really is it! It’s horrible to think there is many people like us that live in fear, wouldn’t it be nice if we could put this behind us and just live our lives without worrying. I think that’s me, the whole understanding cancer more than what I did when I was young which is why my mind is glued to that disease. 
 

you know thats funny because I am the same, not just to my children, but I am very good at dishing out the advice and the reassurance and as soon as I say it I laugh to myself and wonder why I never listen to myself, it’s strange how our minds work like that! Oh wow this is beginning to get really weird lol. It’s like we couldn’t have bumped into each other if we tried, had really similar stories and all! I’m literally laying here ignoring Bridgerton on Netflix, mouth wide open, gobsmacked at how we both have extremely similar lifestyles! Maybe we are birthday twins haha! Honestly I just can’t believe it it’s really sped me in my tracks lol. Sorry to hear your daughter suffers with infections, these kids ay! They do like to make us worry. Yes I’m glad yours turned out to be ok too. 

Oh I remember reading that side effect and saying to my mum, why would I want to have that side effect I’m petrified of dying, would I want to have those thoughts! Why would they give me a tablet to make me think about suicide when I want to live! I get you lol I take it like humour! 
 

i agree with you, makes me feel kinda nal being able to openly talk to another human feeling the same, it’s great talking to family but they just don’t get it, nobody that hasn’t gone through it will truly understand how we feel! Although I’m with you I wouldn’t wish these feelings and thoughts on anyone it’s horrible! 
 

absolutely I will definitely be in here letting you know, and I will be waiting for an update from you! I have a good feeling. I feel positive vibes just from speaking with you xxx

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